Wow, what a loss. It's not that I knew him personally but it shames me to admit
to taking his contributions for granted. I certainly have enjoyed them all these
years. All those songs that are part of the soundtrack of my life. I can't even
explain the melancholy I feel after hearing about this. I certainly pray for his
wife and other loved ones. ~ Karen Kasulke-Harrington, DE
To Dan's Family:
Even to this day I cannot listen to, nor sing to "Leader of the Band"
without tearing and choking up. I thank you, Dan, for your gift of song and
message. And I thank you for bringing out that emotion. May your family find comfort
in the fact that you have made a difference in the world which is all we can
aspire to do.
May God be with you and you with God. ~
Dan B.
His music was a part of my life. I would have liked to have thanked him for all the joy he brought me while he was still with us. But I can only post a simple email to say Dan THANK YOU for sharing your thoughts and music with me. ~
Paul Kastner
As you journey ever on, your music remains to comfort us. ~ Becky
My heart is broken and I feel so little. I have no words .
My sincere condolences to Dan's family.
Thanks Dan for your great music that has accompanied me for 30 years!!
I'll pray for you. ~
Franco from Padova (Italy)
My most heartfelt sympathies go out to Jean and Dan's family. Words cannot express the sadness that I feel at the loss of such a friend. Living here
in Colorado, I always hoped that one day I might run into Dan somehow and be
able to tell him how much his music meant to me and how it kept me going
through dark times. For this, I will always maintain a place of honor and
highest esteem for Dan. Thanks!
Many years ago, I read a poem that I feel is so fitting at this time. I
don't know who to give credit to for the words, but they are amazingly appropriate today. "Some people come into our lives and quickly go.... Others stay a while,
and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever, the same."
God's speed Dan.
Dear Jean and Dan's Family,
My deepest and sincerest sympathy goes out to you in this time of sorrow. I
know it must be a bittersweet time. "Bitter" because you and I have lost
someone who has touched our lives so profoundly. "Sweet" in knowing that Dan
is in no more pain or misery. He has been delivered. He is free to fly and
go where our souls live on in eternity. Dan lives on.
I know in my heart that Dan will continue to make music wherever he is now.
And the music he has left to us will continue to surround and embrace us in
our time of loss. I have been a fan of Dan's since he put out his first"album. I will play his music and celebrate his life -- for it was so
beautifully lived out, shared, and recorded for so many of us to hear. I have such
beautiful memories of his concerts that I attended with my beloved James and
other family and friends. I loved nothing more than introducing people to
Dan's music for it was unique.
Now I pray that God's arms will be wrapped around you during this time. May
you know that others grieve with you. May you know that as Dan has found the
resurrection and new life, you will too. God will help you to find
resurrection and new life on this side of death.
My prayers will continue to be with you.
Most sincerely ~
Kate E. Cox.
Jean has lost a husband to a terrible disease and there is little
consolation in that, and the world has lost one of the most prolific
singer song writers of this era or any era. Peace ~ Keith Naylor
I'm so sorry I didn't know Dan was ill and I could have sent him a "Thank You" for all the great music and inspiration, especially in my
college years at Illinois State University. His music "helped me get my
mind right" on many occasions and I treasure his albums even more today.
My condolences to his family and Dan, wherever you are, "Thanks": More
importantly, I'm 50 and have been putting off getting the dreaded
prostate exam but I will schedule an appointment today, once again
hearing his words and advice. ~ Kent Affholter,
Grapevine, Texas
A beautiful voice has been silenced, yet we will always hear his voice in our minds. God bless you for all that you have shared with us. You will always be in our hearts. ~
GH
Heartbroken -
Jean and Dan's family, know that the world grieves with you.
"...and now he sings with the angels..."
~
Sherry
Several years ago my three brothers and I started a brother's weekend
tradition where we would get together for a weekend, just the four of us.
During one of these weekends my eldest brother asked us to create a CD of
our top ten favorite songs of all time. In no particular order I selected
my ten favorites. "Same Old Lang Syne" (to the shock of my three brothers)
made the cut. Dan shares a spot on that CD with the likes of Led Zeppelin
(10 Years Gone), Van Halen (Dreams), AC/DC (For Those About To Rock) and
several other bands. None of which share Dan's styling.
My wife is amazed by the fact that every single time I hear "Same Old Lang
Syne", I cry. In fact, I have tears in my eyes right now. At times it
truly makes me weep. My wife and I have been together since High School.
If our paths had divided I believe this song would have become my theme
song. Happily, we stayed together and have two beautiful sons.
It takes a true musical master and genius to write a song that can bring on
such levels of emotion every single time you hear it. I look forward to
hearing this song several dozen times during the holidays. Dan's passing
gives me yet one more reason to shed a tear when listening to this song.
From one musician to another, he will be sorely missed. Today, the snow
most definitely turned into rain. ~
Steve
Heartfelt wishes and prayers for your peace and comfort at this
most difficult time. I've been a fan of Dan's since the 70's.
His music was inspiring and uplifting as well as entertaining.
Peace.
Dan's words and music were a big part of my college days in the
mid-late '70's. Some of my fondest memories of those times come back to
me whenever I hear anything from his earlier albums. I feel as though I
have lost an old friend who was there with me during some of the best
days and nights of my life. His life will forever resonate through the music he gave to us. ~ Dan J.
Dearest Jean, When I lost my wonderful loving sister a few years ago ,on the plane ride home from Montana after laying her to rest I remember realizing that I had lost my "best forever friend "and it literally broke my heart. Some time later though I was at a mountain lake and it was calm and quiet. I wasn't even thinking about anything except how the sun felt wonderful on my face. The fact that I could feel something again surprised me however. At that moment I felt my sister again and I smiled and cried all at once because I realized she had never left me and never would. I wish you peace, things will be fine, you will see. Love ~ a Nevada cowgirl
I was saddened to hear this news! The loss is earthly but the gifts he gave
through his music were numerous! My older brother introduced me to his
music in early 80's and I was hooked! My life has gone through many turns
from being a teenager to being in my 40s and his music walked me through all
of this! I was blessed by his talent and I wanted all of those close to him
know that his life made a difference and he will be missed.
Thank you ~
Bonnie Fraser,
Aurora, Colorado
He never knew me. Always wanted to, but never did see him live in concert. But his song "Longer" was the determining factor in my choosing the woman I love and later married. "Longer" was our wedding song. "A Place In The World For A Gambler" got me through the US Air Force and many future challenges I faced and reminds me of the 1976 Winter Olympics. I wish I known him on a personal level......what a loss! ~
Karl Kettner
I am a professional singer/songwriter whose life and career were very much influenced by the writings of Dan Fogelberg. He was and is still my favorite
male singer/songwriter. He spoke musically and lyrically with such deep
emotion and whether happy or tortured, his words went straight through your soul. He will be greatly missed but like a phoenix, he has risen. His music will
live on.
I am a 53 year old man and just wanted you to know how much your music had given me hope and inspiration over the years. I loved your concerts in Dallas Tx. for several years and always came away from them feeling like I'd just met the most amazing musical artist of my generation. I was so close to my father also and really felt your love for your father thru your song and it really touched me. Dan is now with his father and his real Father. Thanks for the sunshine
you spread over the years. ~
Stan Cook
One of my handful of favorites during my adolescent years, Dan's music became a
part of my life's permanent soundtrack back then. I strummed them on my guitar
and thought of them as my own. I'm quite saddened to know that he is gone.
"Love when you can,
Cry when you have to..." ~
J.C. Province,
Culver City, CA
Not much to say but thanks for all the great songs and your work to help preserve our wilderness you will be missed by many.
I grew up at the same time as Dan. He was an inspiration to me as a
musician and poet. He added to the fabric of my life. I feel like I
have lost a brother. He will be missed but he will always be present in
his art.
Please accept my condolences to the family and close friends and know
that you will be in my thoughts as you bear this loss.~
John Rienzo
What would I have done without the beautiful voice of Dan Fogelberg during my high school days. Many tears fell during those songs, but also many smiles. So sorry to see him go, but what a huge impact he made on my life during such impressionable years...THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! God go with you! ~
Deb Ford,
Marietta, GA
The world has lost a most gifted singer, songwriter & musician with Dan's
passing. I am just devastated.
I fell in love with his music (and him) when I heard Nether Lands in 1979 at
age 22 ( I'm now 50). I was praying that you would be healed and you could
grace us with your music again. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Jean
and the rest of the Fogelberg family. My prayers are with you. Dan you truly
are a living legacy, may your music live on forever. ~ Karen
Goodyear-Aurora, Co.
Jean and family. My condolences go to you and your loved ones. As an air
personality, I cannot begin to tell you how many times I would sit behind the
microphone and become misty eyed at the beautiful story behind 'Same Old Lang
Syne'. To you, Dan, and I know you can see this. Godspeed and God bless. Thanks
for the music. ~
Barry Michaels
My prayers are with your family. I adore Dan's music-such great, thoughtful stuff! I
wish he was talked more about. In some weirdly ironic way, his death will bring his music
to the forefront again. Wish life wasn't that way. May we all tell each other NOW how
much we love and appreciate each other. Don't put it off-tomorrow may really be too late.
My wife and I saw Dan perform in the Houston area several times, most
recently at The Woodlands Pavilion. He was unquestionably one of the
most talented singer songwriters of our generation. Though he will be
greatly missed, he will be remembered through the wonderful songs and
memories he has left us all with. ~
Steve,
The Woodlands, TX
To my friend from afar, I will miss you. Unlike the words to my favorite song, "Last Nail" ,1975, "the wind will never erase your trail of footprints". Thank you for sharing yourself and being a part of my life for 30 years. ~ Lori Ehrett, St. Louis
Like all of Dan's fans, I was troubled with the news of his diagnosis with
prostate cancer three years ago. Certainly the time since was spent battling the disease, spending the remaining time with his wife and friends and preparing for the inevitable. His passing today at age 56 brings me great sorrow. It was only a day ago that I heard his voice through the speakers of my car singing "Same Old Lang Syne" while I traveled to work. It brought tears to my eyes then, and always did. I took my kids to hear Dan (their first concert) at the old Valley Forge Music Fair outside of Philadelphia back in the mid-90's. Dan was a powerful singer, songwriter and human being and he will be remembered always by this family. ~ Michael, Central Pennsylvania
Aside from loving Dan's music from the start, I had the pleasure of knowing him in High School and playing on the tennis team (he was my doubles partner) with him. The guys I hung with at Woodruff used to follow his band, the "Clan," around Peoria and listen to Dan and company play. He was always a class act and will be missed. There's an old saying that goes, "I like me better when I am with you." I am sure that most anyone who knew Dan could make this statement when they were with him. The music in Heaven is a little sweeter today! ~ Cal Quast, Woodruff HS Class of 1968
The world has lost a gentle giant. I will miss you. ~
Keith B. Musselwhite
I never missed your concerts at Red Rocks, or an album....I will miss you
forever! Peace to you and your family. ~ Cheryl & Devyn - Aurora, CO
The snow has truly turned into rain...my thoughts and prayers are with
entire family. May you be eternally comforted by the sounds of Dan's
soothing music forever. ~ Matt
Dan left a footprint on this earth that isn't likely to be filled by
anyone else. I am so grateful to have been living during the era of his
music that had such a significant impact on my life. May His peace that
passes all understanding comfort his family and close friends during
this difficult time. With much love ~ Gerri
I was so saddened to hear of Dan's passing. My heart breaks for your
loss. He was such a part of my life - by beginning my married life with
my husband with dancing our "first dance" as a married couple to "Longer".
Then as the years passed, when we had found out that our first child was
to be a little girl, that year Dan released the song "Anastasia's Eyes".
We loved the song and name so much we named our daughter "Anastasia".
Unbelievably, when she was born, she was born with the MOST AMAZING blue
eyes! It was as if Dan had written it for her.
He was very much a part of my life, with going to his concerts, and
listening to his songs. He will always live in my heart forever.....
along with his words!
Please know he is in a better place now, and is not in pain or
suffering. He is again "whole", until we meet him again in the next
life, God will watch over him...... and us!
With Love and Positive thoughts going Your Way! ~
Helen Kellogg
I was so sad to hear of Dan's passing. I can remember the countless hours of comfort and happiness his music gave to me as a pre-teen and teenager. Even now as I listen to "Old Lang Syne" on the radio I close my eyes and feel the way I did back then. Dan was one of the most talented singer/song-writers that ever recorded. His music and lyrics touched my heart is a way that only a few could do. I remember feeling the same sense of loss and sadness the day that Harry Chapin was killed. Dan and Harry were masters of their craft and as evidenced on this website, Dan was loved and admired by so many. I will remember his family in my prayers and will now cherish his music even more than before. ~ Beth Strickland
I am deeply saddened to hear of Dan's passing. He was a true artist and his music will live
on for many generations to come. I feel as though I have lost a personal friend. My thoughts
and prayers are with his family and friends.
He will be missed.
Sincerely ~
JoAnn,
Godfrey, IL
Dear Jean and family: I am so sorry for your loss. Dan was like a big brother that got me
through some of the toughest times of my life as a teen 30 years ago. Growing
up without a father and a mentally ill mother, I was so lost. Then I found "Captured Angel." And I felt it was me in so many ways. I played that album a
million times and always felt better afterwards, no matter how bad it was.
I will forever be grateful for that.
My prayers are with you. I know how profound the sadness to say goodbye to
someone that you love. I wish you tender compassion in unique moments of time
that you will recognize as these days pass into months, and the holidays are
behind us. God bless you, may the angels surround you. ~
Joi Mejia,
Pembroke Pines, FL
Thank you Dan. Bless you and your loved ones. May you rest in peace...Love ~ Brian
Morrison, Easthampton,Ma.
Let me start by saying how sorry I am for your loss at this time Jean! What
a man he was. I go back to my childhood and remember the songs that came out
of my brother's radio. I was introduced to his music as early as 3 and 4
years old, I am now 39. My favorite song by Dan was his remake of "Rhythm of
the Rain" from the early 90's. However, the song that has the biggest
influence on me and has the most incredible story for me is longer! Back in
the late 80's and 1990 I was involved in a 2 year relationship. This person
had all of Dan's work. I listened to a lot of his work I had not heard
before. Well sometime in 93 about 3 or 4 years after we broke things off, I
heard that my ex had contracted HIV they thought from either blood
transfusion or sharing needles, one of the big reasons I ended the
relationship was drug use. I still cared deeply for this person and had a
lot of empathy for my ex. The song my ex always played was "Longer",
definitely a favorite. I would get updates about my ex from a mutual friend
she would call me about every month or so. My ex was pushing everyone away
wanted to pretty much die alone. Well I was in the passenger seat in a truck
driving home with a very good friend of mine from Reno Nevada to Grass Valley Ca! While in the Sierra Nevada we were talking a bit and when we
finished I asked if I could turn the radio on? He said yes. So I turned my
friend's radio on and Celine Dion was playing. Right after that song "Longer"
came on and I just got quiet and a shiver ran down my spine. It was like I
knew that my ex was trying to talk to me. Something has happened.
This radio station played that song at least once a day but for some reason
this time I got a chill! I got on my cell phone to call our mutual friend
Kerry who had been keeping me updated. She was crying when she answered the
phone and told me that my ex had passed away earlier that evening and that
she really couldn't talk right now. Another chill went down my spine. As I
am sure you can imagine.
I have never been able to listen to that song the same way again it means a
lot more to me now than it did before that!
God Bless you and your family Jean.
The Leader of the Band has died, But his life will live on in all of us who
love music, Dan's Music!
Very sincerely yours ~
Paul Gohranson! Tacoma Wa.
Your voice spoke to me at a time when I would listen to but a few - the strength and beauty of your music has helped to guide me in my own journeys. Godspeed. ~
Cara
Dear Jean, Your husband shared his gift of lyric and song throughout the world, and
for this alone I am grateful to have listened all these years to whom I
feel is the best songwriter, at least in the top 5, of our time. James Taylor,
Billy Joel, Gordon Lightfoot, and Elton John may round that out , but what a
combination. I can't tell you how many times I cried with joy for "Leader of the
Band", and "Same Old Lang Syne", "Run for the Roses","Longer", and "Make Love Stay." All in my memory and in my heart. May God bless you and your families. Sincerely ~ Joseph
DeAngelo, Poughkeepsie NY
Dear Mrs. Fogelberg:
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the death of your husband. His music
was a catalyst for the release of pent up emotions during difficult times.
Each time I heard his songs, I was grateful for and deeply touched by his
gift and his person in this world. My prayers are with you. Sincerely ~ Carolyn Burns Sullivan
My sincere condolences to the family of this amazing musician. Some of the greatest
songwriters of our time have given inspirational credit to Dan Fogelberg. His ability to
weave rich lyrical content together with incredible melodic lines was nothing short of
brilliant. Not since the passing of John Lennon have I felt such loss. I grew up with you
Dan. I became a came a man while you were playing the soundtrack to my life. Thank you so
very much. I will miss you.
Sincerely ~
Dave Isbell,
Sandy, Oregon USA
I've played guitar and sang since I was 15, and I'm 40 now. Dan
Fogelberg's music inspired me to be a great acoustic singer/songwriter.
'Leader of the Band' was one of the first songs I learned to play.
He had that classic folk style that could touch a listener's heart and
bring them to where he was coming from. You were a great one, Dan.
Thank you for helping me learn to play guitar by being the great
musician you were. You'll be missed. ~
Paul Zetterower,
Jacksonville, FL
I can still vividly remember the day that I purchased the Souvenirs LP.
What a wonderful introduction to a great human being. It has been such a
positive journey. You have touched both my wife and myself for so many
years. May God be with you in your journey beyond this existence. Your
time of inspiration here has many years to run. ~ Mark & Barb - PA
I will never forget hearing Dan at Red Rocks many, many times. They were some of the most memorable concerts I ever attended. I have nothing but wonderful memories of those shows with friends and family, singing along to "There's a place in the world for a gambler...." at the top of my lungs. My condolences go out to Dan's family. We will miss him!
Some of my most endearing memories are revisited over and over when I
hear
Dan Fogelberg's tunes. As I grew, both spiritually and maturely, through
the late 60s and early 70s, Dan's music was right there along side of me.
I will miss him so much! ~
Bob Sims
I know that this email is amongst thousands...My sincere condolences. I
am a 50 year old man. I grew up with, and have actually listened to Dan
play in Nederland Colorado years ago when I was in my youth. I learned
how to play the guitar because of him. His amazing talent and ability
to speak from his heart through his hands and music will live with me
forever as will his memory. He truly did give me a gift I never can repay.
Warmly and with my deepest condolences ~
Ernie Smith
Dan is truly one of my favorite singer/songwriters of all time. Whenever his music plays on Sirius or my car radio, I love to sing with him (although not well!). My own 56-year-old husband had surgery for prostate cancer this year and seems to being doing well. He has been going for those tests that make men cringe for several years, as he lost his own Dad to cancer. Although I don't usually break down when I hear of a performer's death; the loss of Dan Fogelberg has cause more than a few tears to fall. ~ Sandee in CT
My thoughts and prayers go out to Jean and his family.
Dan was truly an inspiration to all. I have always loved his music and
will miss him - but his legacy lives on.
God bless you and rest in peace. ~
Kitty Knill
I'll miss you more than I know. ~ D. WITT - Islamorada, Florida
May I extend my sympathies and wishes for peace to all of Dan's family. He touched so many lives through his music. "Same Old Lang Syne" happened to me. When I first heard the song, I pulled my car over and cried. His warm and touching voice will stay with us forever. ~ Sharon R. IL
Dear Dan,
I always thought you would make a return to performing & touring, if only briefly, and I would get to see you one more time. I saw you during your solo tour in the early eighties. Few can command the attention of thousands of people while standing on stage alone. You did. Your songs and delivery made every hair on my body stand up. You are an inspiration to me, and I still perform your songs on stage. See you around. ~
Tom Connelley,
Carbondale, Illinois
Jean,
I'm sure you would know this better than anyone else, Dan brings to Earth a
potent vibration of love that is irrefutable. There has been simply nothing
more emotionally lifting in grief as listening to Dan's music. He was able to
know and share this complex depth with millions and he shares it with you
now as much as he ever did throughout his life.
My way of being is to unite and to heal. Often it is to heal the broken
body by bringing to the body precisely what it needs. But it is also to heal
the broken heart. In this way I share something with Dan. In this way I share
with you your grief as you long for Dan's physical presence.
May your longing to unite once again with Dan manifest the very grief that
cures all hurt and unites you with him beyond time and place. ~
Deborah Tighe, Colorado
I'm deeply saddened by Dan's passing. His music is forever connected with
some of the best times of my life. He will be greatly missed. ~ Randy
I have been so blessed to have discovered Dan Fogelberg's music in the
1970's. His way of putting to music (my) feelings to music has helped me
through many of sad and happy times in my life. The world will miss him as
will I. ~
Janine
It's amazing one person can impact so many. Dan's music impacted my whole family. My kids like his songs and got his cd. "Nexus" is my favorite. I put part of the lyrics in my daytimer. To Dan's family our prayers and condolences to you. Thank you Dan ~ The Krajewski Family, John, Cathy, Johnnie,Angel and Jessica
To the Family of Dan:
I was so sad to hear of your loss. The news was all the more saddening
for me since I lost my husband in 2006 to advanced prostate cancer.
Jean I hope you know you are not alone. I am thankful to see the sermon
on Dan's page telling men to get tested. I lead an online support group
for women whose husbands/loved ones are fighting this horrible disease.
If Dan's story saves just one man from this, we are grateful.
Peace on the journey ~
Juel Russell
Thank you for sharing your beautiful music with us for these many
years. Your beautiful voice will live on in our lives. Peace be with you,
Jean. ~
Cheryl D. Bivens,
Oklahoma City, OK
May Dan rest in peace with all of the other Saints in heaven. His music has made me smile, weep, and rejoice for many years. My husband and I have seven sons - my husband is the Leader of the Band, too. Thank you for sharing his wonderful life through his website, and for his incredible music. Through his music he will live on. ~
A Fan.
OH My! I just heard this sad news. My heartfelt condolences go out to Dan's
family and friends first and foremost. I envy you all, in that you really
knew the man, Dan Fogelberg. But I envy not your heavy hearts and sadness in
this time of deep loss. Just know that my prayers and thoughts are with
you. And then, to everyone, like myself, who loved Dan through his music
that was his gift to the world, this is an unspeakable loss for us all.
The first time I heard "Longer" on the radio. I sat in my car until the song
was over and knew I'd be forever hooked on the music of this man and I had
to find out.who he was. I could not get enough. I bought every album,
cassette tape and later every CD, I could get my hands on.. old and new and
found that I had completely missed out for some time for not having
discovered him sooner...how had I missed this guy????. I even bought High Country Snows (and I am not a Bluegrass fan) but I loved anything he sang.
His voice was unmistakable and his talent for writing songs and singing was
nothing less than a gift from God!
I sat in the pouring rain in Chastain Park, an Atlanta amphitheater many
years ago, to hear him sing live and I left inspired and blessed and so
happy that I had been given that chance to here him.
When my daughter was planning her wedding in 2000, she came to me, wanting
to know about that song I used to play in the car when she was little. It
was "Longer" and it was sung at her wedding because she said, "It says it
all!".
We are all so truly blessed that Dan shared his gift with us all. Dan was a
beautiful man, with a beautiful soul and a beautiful voice and we will love
you forever. your music will live on and on.."Longer". ~
JLC
I first started buying Dan's albums when I was a young teenager. I
remember sitting and listening to his music and crying. It was so full
of emotion and beauty. He was a very talented man
and I am so grateful he shared his gift with the world. I will love and
treasure his music always. ~
Jackie Neal
Dan, you fought the greatest battle of all. You may be gone from this world but I'm sure their rolling out the red carpet in the next one. We love you man. Jean, God bless you. ~ Bill Hubbard, Athens, GA
Blessings on your journey Dan.
It's funny but your music so much was a part of my youth and underscored some key moments
in my growing up. I have been genuinely blessed by the music, wanted to be like you and
loved how you could break a heart with a song or sing a song about a broken heart.
Thanks for blessing my life ~
Noa Winter Lazerus,
Composer
Two weeks ago, while working in the library, a song came on my iTune's
70's
radio station - "Part Of The Plan." I leaned back in the chair, removed my
hands from the laptop and looked out The Plaza Library window as the song
played. For three minutes, I was back in Myles Standish Hall at Boston
University - 1976 - sitting with friends - some getting high, some sipping a
beer, some just sitting. Just about any time of day or night, you could walk
down the Myles' hallways and hear tunes like "Part of The Plan." If people
weren't listening to the likes of Fogelberg or Taylor, you'd hear some
Steely Dan, Poco, Eagles, Hall And Oates, Doobie or Allman Brothers, etc.
Those days, there was so much great music to choose from, so many fantastic
songwriters and performers. Still, for me, one singer/songwriter really
stuck out. Who knows why that happens? We all have someone special - a band,
a singer, something that just seems to hit us when it counts, right at the
time we most need it.
I think "Stars" may have been the first of his songs I heard. One of my
roommates had that "Home Free" record, the one with the face on the front
cover that looked like an American Indian. I remember hearing "Stars" and
heading directly down to the piano room, it must've been two in the morning
and it was absolutely crucial that I learn that song and learn it right
away. I must have plunked at those keys for an hour or two until ... well
... what can I say? Some songs just sound better on a guitar. "Stars" is one
of those songs.
"I have some bad news."
I heard my brother's voice on the phone; we'd just finished comparing notes
about the Pat's game. Once Stuart assured me a family member wasn't
involved, he told me that Dan Fogelberg died today. Prostate Cancer. He was
56.
I'm sitting here writing this tonight because, to tell you the truth, I feel
I have to do something. Musically, Dan Fogelberg wrote songs that were not
only beautiful - they actually affected me. Sure, for those of you who know
me, Billy Joel is obviously still high on my list, as are the Beatles,
Stones, Who, Eagles, and so on. But there was something special about
Fogelberg's music. Something that moved me, as well as so many others.
I learned and performed Judy Collins', "Since You Asked," at my friend
Larry's wedding; it was the Fogelberg/Weisberg rendition that served as the
motivator. "Stars," "To the Morning" - those songs carried me through my
college re-entry after I'd taken a year off to find myself and take in a bit
of the world. That was a hard and very special time for me and certain music
is firmly embedded, dare I say it? In my soul. Once exposed to this man's
music, I loved everything he released. "Souvenirs" is probably my favorite
album - not one weak song on the entire LP. Now, how often does that happen
today, if at all? "Part of the Plan," "There's A Place In the World for A
Gambler," "Morning Sky," "Better Change," ... It's silly to name every song.
They're all terrific.
My Favorite - And then - there's "Leader of The Band". I just pecked out
those four words and my eyes started to well up, I swear it. I don't mean
for this to sound morbid but, over the years I've often thought that when my
father dies, I'm going to sing that song at his funeral service. And the
fact is, I'm pretty sure I've already told him I'm going to do just that;
this way he won't be surprised when it happens. A singer songwriter
himself - I always felt as though Dan Fogelberg had somehow secretly studied
my family and wrote a song about my father, as strange as that sounds. It
turns out, (and I didn't know this for sure until today) "Leader Of The
Band" is about Fogelberg's own composer father, Lawrence. And judging from
the hundred's of responses on YouTube under this song title, it's apparent
this composition has hit the "father" mark dead-on when it comes to the
great parent/love songs of our time. If you've never heard this track,
here's a link to it. It's worth a quick listen. Check out the lyrics. Sure,
sure ... some of you will say it's too soft, syrupy, schmaltzy, whatever.
You know what? Call me square, but I liked the quieter and often softer
times, too. Anger, franticness, tension, conflict - I find I tire of that
stuff much more easily these days.
After I heard "Part Of The Plan" two weeks ago, I
found myself browsing iTunes for Dan Fogelberg music. I think it must have
been 25 years since I've felt that kind of strong desire to hear those songs
again. At first, the quick 30 second clips satisfied my craving. But, after
hearing a song or two again, it didn't take long to figure out that clips
just weren't going to do the trick. One by one, I started to buy tracks-
creating my own Dan Fogelberg's Greatest Hits collection. And, once I got
home, I made sure to burn a CD so I could listen to the songs in the car.
And for the past two weeks, that's all I've been listening to.
So, when Stu told me the bad news tonight, I heard the words, paused for a
moment and then couldn't help but smile. I told him about my recent Dan
Fogelberg music run.
Strange, huh? I've hardly even thought about Dan Fogelberg all these years
and certainly didn't know anything about his illness. I figured with my
rekindled interest in his music, it'd be easy to catch him on tour some day
soon.
But that's not going to happen.
While visiting with my parents last week
in Florida, I had a chance to chat for a bit with my dad one night at the
dining room table. We had just finished speaking with my mom who was in the
hospital and, after lighting the last night's Hanukkah candles, I thought it
would be a good time to ask him some questions - something to add to the
Eldercation interview I did with him a few years back. We ended up talking
for quite a while about his songwriting and he shared some of his thoughts
with me; new things I'd never heard him talk about before, at least not with
me. He talked about his love for creating music for people, how he'd
sometimes be on the subway in the city, and he'd hear people humming or
whistling a line from something he wrote. "When you die, it's kind of like being a bit immortal. Your music is still
here," he said. "You've left something real and special for others to
enjoy - even when you're gone. That's a good feeling. To know that's what's
going to happen."
Well, thank you, Dan. You've left more than enough for us to enjoy for many
years to come.
And when I head into work tomorrow, all I have to do is click on the CD
player - the disc is right where it's been for the past two weeks.
To a man who provided many with peace in his lifetime . Resquit en Pace. God Bless
I truly feel like my best friend has died. I am so very sad. But you
did give us all a gift we never can repay. Your music will still be
with me until the day I die. I have been playing your music non stop
every week for the last 30 years and will not stop now. What a legacy
you have left us and future generations to enjoy. I love you so much.
Good-Bye and to Jean may the memories stay alive in your heart forever. ~
Karen,
Denver,CO
I can't think back to my 20s without hearing and feeling Dan's music as
a fundamental part of my life. Like someone else who posted
condolences here, I also fell in love for the first time with "Stars" in
the background. And the music and the depth just went on and on. My
best thoughts to Jean and to others of Dan's friends and family,
including all of us who've spent so much time with the gift he gave us. ~
Kathy - Chicago
I was completely shocked upon reading about Dan's passing. Now I am just sad. His music was my pain killer during emotional times of my younger life. I felt as if many of his songs were written just for me, about my life, and that helped me get through many heartaches. May God rest your soul and bring strength to your family. ~
John- Michigan
May you rest in peace Dan. You will be greatly missed!! My thoughts
&
prayers go out to Jean & the family as they deal with such a tremendous
loss. May God Bless you all.
I am home in Heaven, dear ones; Oh, so happy & so bright!
There is perfect joy & beauty in this everlasting light.
All the pain & grief is over, every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' love illumined every dark & fearful glade.
And He came Himself to meet me in that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on, could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond Earth's shadows, pray to trust our Father's will.
There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth, you shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting, Oh, the joy to see you come!
(author unknown)
~ Patricia Snider
Thanks for the music, Dan. Through your songs you will live forever. Rest
in
peace. ~
Paul
It's just overwhelming. He will be missed for so many reasons.
He had such a wonderful way of communicating so many inward emotions. I will miss this complex artist.
His beautiful voice will go on forever inspiring others. His blood is in so
many instruments and his songs in so many souls. He really is the leader of
the band.
Condolences ~ a long time fan
It is a funny thing to cry for someone you've never met. I think Dan Fogelberg touched a
massive amount of people. His music was intensely personal. He became the pen and the
voice for those of use that felt but had no outlet for those feelings. His music will be
with us forever. I am sad at his passing. But I think he is teaching the angels how to
make music now. ~
Lisa, Atlanta, GA
Dan's passing has left a huge hole in my heart. For over 30 years, his music has gotten me through some lonely times, and been right there with me to share in the joyous moments as well. And now, it will help get me through the incredible sadness I feel at losing such a gifted musician and dear friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family. I honor Dan's memory by living my life true to his words. "Love when you can, cry when you have to. Be who you must, it's a part of the plan. Await your arrival with simple survival and one day we'll all understand." Rest in peace, my friend. ~ Carol ~ Davis, CA
OMG--It has been years since I cried but when I read the news this morning, I shed many tears. Dan's music was so important in the lives of me and my wife. The first album we purchased when we were married 31 years ago was Captured Angel. We used to lay on the floor of our apartment and listen to his beautiful music for hours on end. I still have that album--and you know it will be brought out tonight and put on the turntable.
We had the opportunity to see Dan at the Toledo Zoo amphitheater about 15 years ago and that show will always stick in my mind. A solo act who was just tremendous that warm summer evening. Got to see his God-given talents close up and personal. What a songwriter and performer.
God just recruited another member for his band.
The world is a better place because you were once part of it. ~
Mike and Cindy
Dear Fogelberg Family -The news doubled me over and, still, I haven't unfolded. Not since the
deaths of Harry Chapin and Jim Croce have I been so upset by a musical loss...and
I say "musical" because, like many, that is only how I knew Dan. That said,
it was obvious from his work (through which one glimpsed part of his soul)
that there was a great deal more to know.
He was long on my list of famous people with whom I knew I'd enjoy having
coffee. Now, I powerlessly shuttle between grief and anger when confronted with
the reality of this most unwelcome portion of silence.
The magnitude of his loss is known to all who
know the value and rarity of those who are able to use the collectively
accessible grammar of music to create something entirely unique. As this world
continues to embrace soundless pointless musical madness, it is sadly likely
that the loss of Dan Fogelberg will be, at first, a little underestimated, but
that will change.
I am also a composer. Though now my work is largely in the genre of the
musical theatre, Dan was extremely influential with regard to my early
development. Innately, I was drawn to how much of his work, though put forward in a
folk/pop/country gestalt, was so rich with theatricality. The clear, crisp
poetics of his lyrics, the welcoming symmetry of his melodies. Even to my
pre-teenaged ears, I knew there were lessons to be learned in the sounds he made. I
bought all the albums and, on April 17th, 1979....I think that was the date, I
saw him at Carnegie Hall. It was just him, 2 guitars and a piano...magic.
Dan was a great artist and, as you know far better than I, a good, loving
man. I will miss him and thank him for the gifts he never knew he gave me. I
can only hope that, somehow, he comes to know that I have done (and am doing)
the very best I can with them.
God Bless You All ~
Charles Bloom
What a sad day for me and many others. I know that he is now in Heaven with his father, and that makes me feel a little better. I also know that here in Peoria he will be greatly missed, as we have been proud to call him ours at least for a little while.
Thank you for all of your music, Dan. ~
MK Riddell
Dearest Jean and survivors of Dan,
I have been listening to Dan's music since 1974. As one would imagine his songs have
been woven into the fabric of my life and times since I was 14 years old. It is the
greatest gift that he gave of himself, because music is owned by everyone who loves it,
they make it their own. I never met Dan Fogelberg, but I saw him countless times in
concert. He was my one and only favorite artist. I can't express the sense of loss
knowing that he will write no more, but more importantly, having just lost a loved one to
cancer as well, I cannot express how deep my sympathy is for his family. Find comfort in
each other and the knowledge that this wonderful and talented man will never be forgotten.
Sincerely ~
Patty Ruzek
I can remember listening to "Nether Lands" for the first and hearing "Dancing Shoes"....right then and there. I knew the music world had a thoughtful, caring, singer-songwriter in their midst. I know Dan has a beautiful catalog of work, but my favorite album (the one I use to introduce new fans) is Nether Lands. Dan, you will be missed, not just for what you have done, but for the man you are. There is a song, that comes to mind "If there is a rock and roll heaven"...well, now that you are there...you will always be the Leader of that Band. ~
Mark
I am deeply saddened by the news of Dan's death. His music touched a
special chord in my life, and will live on in me for as long as I am
alive.
I hope that wherever he is now, he is happy and still singing.
With deepest sympathy ~
Ed Golamb
Dan's Family & Friends,
I have been a singer/songwriter for over 35 years. I remember listening to Dan for the first time traveling down the road in Colorado where I grew up and started musical career in 1972. Of all the artists that have influenced my songwriting and performance style, Dan has had by far the greatest impact. The gift he has given me and other artists as well is one that will keep on giving through the power of his lyrics and melodies. Dan...all those you have touched wish to thank you...you have spoken to our souls...you have left this world a better place.
Thank you Dan ~
Paul Skyland
My name is Sarah, and I am the daughter of a man who loves and lives by the
spirit of music. Some of my first memories are riding in my dad's truck, listing
intently to music he felt offered important messages, and real feeling. I don't know how old I was when I had memorized every word to "Face the Fire" but it was a song that stayed with me for years, and the story that my dad told to help narrate what Dan was talking about then was a foundation for some beliefs that I hold true as an adult. We are sad to hear of the passing of our friend. His music lives in our hearts. God Bless. ~ Sarah Cady-Ruiz
I wish to express my sincere and heartfelt condolences to immediate Fogelberg
Family members and Miss Jean, Mr. Fogelberg's wife. I am sorry to hear Mr.
Fogelberg did not recover from his illness. I am saddened by this news. It is a
tragic loss to all. I want to relate to you his was a cherished talent and will long be remembered. Few people have a lyrical voice and his instrument and his accompaniment recorded well as the combination resounded, wafting through the airwaves giving many people a sense of inner contentment and discovery eventually within themselves. His being seemingly overlapped into the listener who was better for it. Gifts from A Great Artist and Gentleman. His music will remain for many years. Faithfully ~ Dwight Lynn Dowson, Anglican Priest,The Maxwell Historical Restoration Company
This sounds selfish I know, but there is a hole in my heart today with
Dan's passing. I feel terrible.
I'm sorry I didn't know. I got to know Dan's music back in the late 70's at college. And from that point I bought his albums sound unheard, as in I bought them without even knowing a note or song on the album. He was truly a gifted man.
I pray that the Lord comforts you through this time of your life. He and his beautiful music will be missed by many. I am so sorry for your loss.
Love and prayers ~
Jeff Gerhart,
Houston, Pa.
As a native mid-westerner I have always loved the simple but yet
powerful music and lyrics conveyed by Mr. Fogelberg. He was truly one of
the pioneers of the country-rock genre. I saw him in concert in Kansas
City in 1990, and it still ranks as one of the top shows I have ever
seen. His memory will always live through his music!
The leader of the band has gone home. He and his music will live on... peace be with you .
May Dan's family be comforted to know that his music touched the lives of so
many people - and that touch will be felt forever. A true Living Legacy. ~ mfl
No words could ever express the way millions of people will feel about
the
death of Dan. He was so talented and so young to be lost from this world so
soon. I have been a fan from the first album on. We "grew-up" together! My
sympathies to his lovely wife and I hope you will find strength in the fact
of knowing how much he was loved by so many. I have worked in hospice and
know how a peaceful death can be such a beautiful thing. I found comfort in
knowing that reports say he died peacefully with his wife by his side.
In his spirit ~
Theresa
Dan - it's so hard to believe you are gone. I've been a fan since "Souvenirs" and got all your albums as they came out (and I think I saw
all your concerts in Peoria). Only after I became a fan did I start to
meet Peorians who knew you in school (I even married one, but for other
reasons as well!), and even met your brother Pete once in my office. So
many of your songs resonated with me, so many were meaningful, so many
just sounded good to me, so many bring back specific memories of 20 and
30 years ago every time I hear them. You were a huge and constant
presence in my life especially from my mid-20's through mid-40's (I'm
two years older than you). It saddens me to think you will not be here
to write and sing again, to enjoy life with Jean, to contribute to us
all, and to keep being yourself. Your legacy will certainly live on
forever, however, through your timeless music and on-point lyrics.
Jean-you don't need to be told you married a wonderful man. My heart
aches for your loss, even though I know you made the most of your few
years together with Dan. May that time and your memories carry you
through the future. Know that he has had a positive impact on many,
many lives through his music, and he'll live on in that way for a long
time to come. ~ Mike Fleming
I would like to send my prayers to the family of Dan and add my own testimony to
how i came to be a fan of his music.
I was in high school in the early 1980's and it was very atypical for a teenage boy at that time to listen to what was then considered soft rock. While listening to the radio as I always seemed to do more than anything, the radio station played a most beautiful song that was immediately identified as "Leader of the Band." I grew to love that song and the meaning and the message. It made me think of my own father, who is still alive today and the father of nine children.
When I found out it was Dan who sang it, I went to my parents and asked them to get me every album they could find of Dan for Christmas, and I still have them today. I fell in love with this storyteller/songwriter overnight and continue still today. I never had the money, even in my adult years to ever see him perform. What a wonderful experience that would have been.
Just recently i was able to find a vinyl 45 copy of "Rhythm of the Rain" off ebay. I latched onto that. I feel I have to have everything of his on vinyl, cd or any music format.
When I first heard that Dan had prostate cancer I was astounded.. and remember talking to another fan about it who hadn't heard. That is when you know someone touches your lives and how special they are...when you can talk about someone and how much joy they bring into your heart. Dan did that with his music.
Thank you Dan for giving me a love and respect for my father I didn't recognize until that time in the 1980's when i was a young teenager. May your spirit soar.. and know that your music will still continue to touch many people's hearts.
Sincerely ~
Ron Jones,
Indianapolis Indiana
Dear Dan,
Your simple yet beautiful melodies and lyrics touched me very deeply, along
with your heartfelt and tender vocals. Only a beautiful, thoughtful, and
gentle soul could have made that kind of music. Well done, thank you for having
shared your life with us, and may God keep you in the palm of His hand.
I will pray for you and your family during this difficult time.
With Love ~
Hope (from California)
Every song I've ever heard from Dan has always rang true in my
heart. God bless your family in this great time of loss and may we see
him and all our loved ones in heaven when it is our turn. Thank you Dan
for richly blessing us with your presence while you were here. ~
Julie Moffat
To Jean and the family: I am so terribly saddened to hear of Dan's passing today and my
heart goes out to you all. Dan and I were at the U. of I at the same time and I had the
honor to share a concert or two with him at the Red Herring. I was in a little bluegrass
group, but he was the headliner, of course — it was clear he was really going places back
in 1970 — and he just blew us all away as he sat at the piano and sang his beautiful
songs. The world is a finer place for his having been here. Jean, I've read that you and
Dan haven't been married for too many years. I, too, lost my husband to cancer. He died
in 2005, and we were married in 2002, as you and Dan were. There were times when I wasn't
sure I could survive so much pain, or that I even wanted to. Family and friends brought
some comfort and strength through the darkest times. I was uplifted by the knowledge that
I'd been there to care for him until the end, but suggestions that I should find comfort
in my memories of our life together made me see red. It was a crazy time there for quite
awhile. What I can tell you is that eventually you come to...accept...the unacceptable.
It's NEVER going to be "okay," but it does change. I'll never stop being sad or stop
missing my husband, and there are still "grief bursts." But somehow you regain your
balance. The important thing is to do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself,
your path and your timetable is your own. My thoughts are with you and your loved ones.
With love and gratitude to Dan for all that he was and all that he gave. ~ Claudia Gray
Sweet
What a gift Dan provided to me; it's a legacy I never will forget. ~
Jeff Krawitz
His music ..... his lyrics.....he will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathy to Jean and the rest of his family. What a sad, sad day.
~ Kristen
A friend is gone! I'm speechless. I thought this day would never come! But Dan will be with us forever!
Dan! Wherever you are! Thank you for the music! ~
Sławomir Antkowiak from Poland
Simply an incredible artist that departed this world much too soon. It is
truly a gift when someone has the ability to develop music so melodic,
coupled with beautiful lyrics that it actually paints an image in the
listeners minds as Dan did with so many of his songs. Dan your music is so
powerful and I thank you so much for sharing it with us. Your music has
become your "Living Legacy" with which you so eloquently wrote years ago. My
heartfelt condolences to Jean during this difficult time. May God bless you
and ease your pain. ~ John H.
Thank you, Dan, for those wonderful nights at Golden Voice Studio in South Pekin, Il as you recorded tracks for Captured Angel. I'll see you on the other side of the veil. ~ Tom Byler, Orlando, Fl.
Dan - I loved your music. I was very sad to hear you passed away. ~
Christine
The passing of Dan Fogelberg to day is very upsetting to me personally. I
truly loved his music and it spoke to me in ways I guess Dan wanted it to- I
guess that was his gift to me. ~
Tom Turner
This news breaks my heart. I have been a big fan since the mid-seventies,
but have recently lost touch with Dan's news. I did not even know he has had
cancer. I am a therapist by profession and facilitate three support groups
for patients and caregivers in 'Ole' West Tennessee. I recently listened to
Captured Angel, Souvenirs, and Nether Lands (my favorite) one quiet yet busy
Saturday. It brought it all back, as it always does how meaningful his
lyrics & music were to me at that time in my life and since. Dan gave
expression to sentiments I could not even identify. He was musically poetic
like few others. I will miss him and will pray for Jean. Best regards ~
John Redden
I just heard this morning. My sincerest condolences to the family and
friends of Dan Fogelberg. I am a fan of the music and have many fond
memories with his music as the soundtrack. I hope that you all take
comfort in the memories as I will. ~Stacy
I'm very sad today knowing that Dan Fogelberg passed away yesterday. I'm 44 and
I've been listening to his music since I was about 15. In high school art class
when my assignment was to draw my most prized possession, I drew my Phoenix album. His life was too short, but how fortunate that he had the ability to
touch so many lives.
Thank you Dan for all the great music you've left for us to enjoy in the years
to come. May your words and memory live on forever. You will be surely missed by
all of us who have followed your incredible career. Our hearts are saddened by
your loss, yet we know that you are now at peace. God bless you and your family
and may He give you all the peace and strength to carry on through this time of
year.
In appreciation for his life and his talent that he so beautifully shared, I thank God.
What a tremendous loss to the world. Dan's music has been a friend to me
for countless years; may he live "ever on".
My best wishes to Jean and the rest of Dan's family and friends. ~
Ventura, CA. Jayne
Thank you for the Souvenirs with which you have left us...You are now
Home Free. ~ Sean - Colorado
My heart is heavy today with Dan's passing. Dan's music followed the relationship I have
with my husband, almost from day one, culminating in our wedding song. We continued to
see him in concert every time he came to Philadelphia, and always listened to his music.
Even though I am not male, Dan was my age when he died, and that alone is frightening. I
hope Jean will be somewhat comforted knowing how much Dan and his music was loved. ~
Betsi Caprara
On the news this morning in Dallas/Ft Worth, the announcement came far,
far too soon that one of the most prolific musicians had gone to be with
the Lord. It left a hollow lump in my stomach all day long. No words
in the English language can begin to appropriately articulate the
grandeur and vastness of this man's lyrics, and more importantly, their
impact to every heart that felt the words and the music come together so
elegantly. We mourn Dan and the gift that was sent to us by his deep
passion for reaching out to touch hearts around the world. May his
beloved wife and family be comforted and find healing in the cherished
and privileged legacy of his wonderful craft. I miss him to eternal
end. ~ Jay (Hurst, TX)
We lost him much too young. I feel like I have lost a close friend and
I'm grieving so. I am sure there are thousands of fans like me who were
so deeply touched by his talent and his music. In the early 80's, I was
an obsessed teenager and my family used to tease me relentlessly, but
never did a waiver from my devotion to "Dan The Man." I will always
remember a front row seat at Red Rocks! Peace be with you Dan. And to
the family, I hope you find some comfort in knowing that his fans loved
him too and we wish you love and peace at this very difficult time. ~
Kimberly Korsgren